We’d been seeing each other on and off for years, he living in a different country, me moving from my country to yet a third place. The wonders of international Internet dating. Once a year, we would meet in a darkened room, reconnect, hungry for some decent sex and humor and walking and eating. Free from our lives for a couple of days. He was so busy, we couldn’t manage more than that. Then we finally managed to meet, unexpectedly,

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Embarrassingly enough, 90% of my therapy woes revolve around a very uncool topic for a self-proclaimed feminist: men. What keeps my neurotic head above water during these dead-end relationships is reading the words of trailblazing women. Except for Eleanor Roosevelt. She can fuck off. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent,” she once said. Ok, but did she ever date a psychopath? Also, I doubt Eleanor was ever ghosted. And did she have to search Urban Dictionary for three-letter acronyms

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Have you ever thought about dating a girl in a wheelchair? Has a girl on wheels caught your eye? There are all types of girls in wheelchairs and they have much to offer. Here are a few reasons why you should consider dating them. 1. You will save money and cut the lines. When you date a girl in a wheelchair there’s no need to waste time getting places early to avoid the lines. When a girl in a wheelchair

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As some of you may know, I'm getting married in September. To answer your questions, wedding planning is not really happening at all and no, I'm not nervous. The hubs and I are having a super simple, camping wedding. No catered dinner, painful speeches or horrible PowerPoint presentations where top-40 hits straight out of the 90's usher you from one awkward childhood photo to the next. What does a wedding look like to us? E-mail invites, 30-minute ceremony, $100 wedding

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